Positive Birth - Induction of third baby....
This amazing mumma has been in our village for a while now, doing classes with her three little ones and always being a champion and supporter of others in class! Habiba's story shows how being informed about your choices and advocating for yourself can make all the difference!
"This was my third labour so I was going into it very anxious, knowing a bit more of what to expect, but also having heard MANY stories that I hadn’t asked to hear, of other births over the past six years of having my children.
My first two births were very painful at the pushing stage, both of which I was lying on my back for. Ahead of this labour I did a lot of research on your pelvis during birth and was able to activate my learning while in labour (on all fours, legs together etc). I was able to feel the baby come down and whilst it was intense, I was very present for each final contraction and it felt a lot more natural and I didn’t need much guidance from the midwives.
All my labours have been induced (pessary and waters breaking), and have never had any further intervention. During this one as I hadn’t progressed “as desired” at 3 hours in, a Dr was insisting on syntocinon (artificial oxytocin). My midwife and I advocated for me, knowing my contractions were intensifying and to give me more time. The baby came 1.5 hours after!
My learning has been to trust your gut, focus on your breathing, and think about your position. Always take on board what medical advice you receive but don’t forget to lean into what your body is telling you.
Labour is intense there is no doubt about it, but our bodies are built to do it. Don’t be disappointed if it doesn’t go “as planned” because sometimes the baby has other ideas."
